Michael didn't look good.
We were at his annual Christmas Luau party. Tons and tons of people in the house and the backyard. Standing in his kitchen, wearing a grass skirt and a ridiculous Santa hat covered in sequins, he was acting like always...all flamboyant and silly and adorable.
But he didn't look...right.
It was 1985.
My boyfriend Ken and I stayed until the end of the party to help clean up. I busied myself in the kitchen, washing glasses and cleaning ashtrays. Through the kitchen window, I watched Ken and Michael in the backyard, stacking up the chairs and dousing the dozens of tiki torches, the trademark of Michael's party.
When we were finished, Ken and I stood for a few minutes on Michael's front porch, reviewing the party, who came, who didn't, who shouldn't have come.
Finally, I yawned and stretched and nudged Ken. 'C'mon babe, let's roll. Michael, lots of fun, as always. Try and get some sleep, you look like you need it.'
Ken shot me a scowl.
'I mean, you must be exhausted from getting that party ready.'
Michael laughed and lit a cigarette. 'Oh, you know me. I'll bounce back. Nothing that can't be cured by cigarettes, coffee and cocaine!'
We giggled and waved and headed down the driveway. When we reached our car, I looked back at the house. Michael was struggling with the garbage cans, then broke into a hacking cough.
For the first few minutes of our ride home, Ken and I didn't say anything.
Then, at a traffic light, I looked over at Ken.
'Didn't you think Michael...'
'He's FINE!' Ken cut me off.
'You didn't think he looked kinda thin? And that coughing...'
'Well, you know he smokes too much. And you'd look worn out too if YOU threw a Christmas party for 100 people.'
'Yeah, I guess.'
Ken knew what I was talking about, even if we didn't actually talk about it.
For two years, maybe three, we'd been following the developing story about AIDS. First, the press was calling it 'gay cancer'. Then GRID. Gay Related Immune Disorder. Then AIDS.
We lived in Orlando. Almost all the cases were in New York or San Francisco, and that made us feel safe, in a strange way. Neither of us had been in either place, except as children. And we didn't have any friends from either city. Then Miami began to report cases.
Michael was from Miami.
A week after his Christmas party, on New Year's Eve, out at the club, Michael uncharacteristically left early. Before midnight. He said his hip was bothering him.
Our friend Jack teased him as he was leaving. 'Oh, is Grandpa having some problems with his rheumatiz?'
Michael just smiled and blew us kisses from across the room and limped out.
A few weeks later Ken called me from his office. He was going to take Michael to the hospital. His hip was terribly infected, and Michael couldn't walk. I didn't ask him what was wrong, by now we knew. And Michael knew that we did.
Waiting for Ken to come home, I watched a TV report on AIDS. Specifically, it dealt with how funeral parlors were sometimes refusing to handle the bodies of AIDS patients. Fear of infection. Fear of loss of reputation.
The narrator made a comment about the families and friends of those killed by AIDS. He called them 'this new and modern group' of grievers. When Ken got home, I told him about the story with indignation.
Over the next few months, Michael was in the hospital quite a bit. Ken got into the habit of visiting him on his way home from work, something I could rarely do, since I worked nights. When I did see Michael, he looked progressively worse. Skinnier, pale, his skin patchy and scaley.
But he always had that bitchy sense of humor and that chicken cackle. I'd hear that laugh from down the hallway as I approached his room, which always seemed to be full of friends.
Florida started its state lottery that summer. On the first night of the big drawing, I tried to stay awake for the results, but I fell asleep with the tickets in my hands. I was awakened by Ken sitting on the bed.
'Hey.' I rolled over and looked at the clock. Three in the morning?
Ken still had his tie on. My throat clenched. I don't know why, but I pushed the lottery tickets over towards him.
'So, um...are we millionaires?'
Ken didn't answer me.
'Where have you been? At the hospital? How's Michael?'
Ken leaned over and started untying his shoes. He pulled them off and finally turned to face me. He looked so very tired. He laid down next to me and hugged me, then spoke softly into my ear.
'We've just joined that 'new and modern' group.'