HomoQuotable - Josh Weed
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"The truth is, what people are really asking with the above question is 'how can you be gay if your primary sex partner is a girl?' I didn’t fully understand the answer to this question until I was doing research on sexuality in grad school even though I had been happily married for almost five years at that point. I knew that I was gay, and I also knew that sex with my wife was enjoyable. But I didn’t understand how that was happening. Here is the basic reality that I actually think many people could use a lesson in: sex is about more than just visual attraction and lust and it is about more than just passion and infatuation. I won’t get into the boring details of the research here, but basically when sex is done right, at its deepest level it is about intimacy." - Opposite married gay Mormon Josh Weed, in a blog post titled Club Unicorn.
Labels: HomoQuotable, Mormons, religion, sexuality